Most often in December I take time to reflect over the last 11 months and I consider the lessons that I have been presented with, the difficulties that have come up, and I also look for the good that has kept me going when times are tumultuous as they have been for me this year. I don't know about anyone else, but I can say that this truly has been one of the most difficult years that I have faced and trust me I've had some rough years. This year I have struggled with grief t